PROBLEMS ARE NORMAL AND GENERAL; SUICIDE IS NOT AN OPTION

PROBLEMS ARE NORMAL AND  GENERAL; SUICIDE IS NOT AN OPTION

It's now suicide everywhere.. my heart breaks anytime I see a post on suicide or hear about it. You see, what you don't know is that killing yourself won't end your pains, it will only move the pains beyond here. I asked myself " why are people dieing for nothing?". You want to end your dreams, goals, visions, purpose, career and still be guilty of death? Yes, you will be guilty of death. You aren't willing to speak out and seek help because you think no one would ever want to listen to you. Some people actually care but you won't know they exist if you don't speak out.You think everyone has their problems and you don't want to burden anyone. The people you don't want to burdened are burdening some people to survive, please burden them. I don't believe that life is so fair to give us all we ever wanted, even the happiest man doesn't have it all, he is just willing to live above his problem and trusting God for a change.

What exactly is your problem that you think you are the only one failing? What is that challenges you think you won't be able to overcome unless you shorten your lifespan?.
Have you failed in your marriage, academics, purpose? Do you lack good parental care, loyal friends, families who care, foods, clothes or shelter? Or maybe you have been judged, criticized, condemned, abused, mutilated, rejected and you think you have seen it all? These problems are normal and general. Yes dearie, they are normal and general. What is not normal is for you to think that committing suicide will solve all these problems. That's too shallow! I know it's not easy, I have been there and I still have problems and challenges I'm facing. But have you thought about people who never had half of what you have now and they succeeded? I don't think you have done that. They were not born strong, they made themselves. God, hope and faith was their motivation. Don't be afraid to speak out, come out of your shell, nobody succeed in isolation. Don't be afraid to be judged, mocked, criticized and condemned. Be ready to fail but don't give up on God and yourself. Failure is not a place, it is a phase, don't tabernacle there. Have a positive mind. Take charge of your environment. Be the determinant of what happens in your environment and not the other way round. Don't compare yourself with anyone, everyone is packaging. Do some packagings too. See those failures of yours as a stepping stone, not as stumbling blocks.
Cry all you can, Scream, wail, shout, skip meals, do all you can to ease your pain but please *don't die for nothing*. Remember, when there is life there is hope. If you commit suicide all hopes end. Speak Out! You are not alone! SUICIDE IS NOT AN OPTION.

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